Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
Win did me having standers and requirement to build a relationship with you is axing for too much especially when I’m willing to give you what you ne
In a marriage and a relationship commitment, when do you start showing this woman that you're the one after you have got settled and now you're saying you can meet the needs? No you're not. Because if you're not meeting the need in the beginning, you're not going to meet the needs in the middle or the year after. So if me asking you for simple things up front is an issue then you're not the one. Because a phone call isn't hard to do
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:57
I think men have forgot that they are kings, that they are leaders, that they are the boundary setters, and that they are the pursuer. So if you're pursuing me and you're not willing to give me what I'm asking for at the beginning of a relationship, simple 30 seconds of good morning before before you start your day. I'm just asking just before you start your day, I know we're busy. I work, I'm busy
And anytime I'm given standards or I'm giving demands or not saying you're giving demands or I'm doing that, that means that I'm subject to this person somehow, or they got something that I need, and it I have to prove myself. And actually, I may be overqualified. It's not a job. It's probably going to be the greatest experience of our lives. I don't think it should start off with paperwork or questions. That should be on paperwork
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 2:57
You. Good morning. Good morning. Thank you for your reply. I'm not asking for my personal life to be a job, because I am and desire to be your safe place, your peace, your calm, your retrieved place. But what I am asking for is to know what you need from me for this relationship and the same vice versa
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 3:38
So if you meet a woman and you want something special with her, but still yet she's still dating all the other fellas that's in her past, that's the standards. It's either going to be me or them. That's a requirement. Either going to be me or them. Because you want her in your life just for you, but she's still willing to mingle and have you too. You ain't going to settle for that. Be blessed
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
It's about being willing and wanting to fulfill somebody else's desire to have that person in your life, to be happy with that person in your life so relationship can stay on fire, so we can continue to desire and have that lustful look in your eye when you look at me. Why? Because I'm fulfilling your requirements, that's why
And it's impossible, but it's a good side to it, too. That is not knowing and finding out that what you want is there. You know, like, what's wrong with being together? And if you like to hold hands, we hold hands. So I guess you scratch that off. We'll talk about that later. Then I'm calling you every day at 09:00 on my first break. Well, we can scratch that off. Like, everything you need might be there
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 2:00
It is what it is. But if I inform you up front that I choose not to do that, that's my preference. But if I meet someone, we're going to take day by day to see, to grow, to learn each other, to like each other needs and not like and dislike. That's not what I'm saying, sir. But I do have a right to tell you my requirements in a relationship
And I'd still date you because I like to talk too. Just a lot of the stuff that you're talking about is automatic for me. It's not even to be mentioned. I mean, it's never mentioned because it's automatic. I can go to covering all the bases. I got that. But you don't got to tell me. I don't want you to cheat on me. I think I got that one already
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:54
Not to say that she's this and she's that, but it's like at least at that point I pretty much know what I'm dealing with and then I can make a decision to say, like, you know what, it's not going to work. Good luck in your search. But again, it's more so the younger generation, they have too many expectancies and requirements and high standards and they don't have any notches under their belts