Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:09
Wht do we pick the person we have for instead of the person that truly likes us?
Good morning. Good morning, everyone. Have a safe and happy day. This is the queen. Actually, this question came from someone Mr. Seven, I do believe, that replied to a swell. And he said he never picked the women that wanted him, that liked him. It he always picked the opposite, someone he had to pursue and chase and so on
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 0:39
You. Who is that one person that you wanted to date but never got a chance to? My one person. His name was Kenyatta Carrington. He was the son of pastor when I was growing up in my 20s that I was really attracted to, just fascinated with. But it never happened and and we knew we liked each other for some reason. It just never happened. But I think of him often and pray that he's wonderful and happy. Bye
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 1:55
I think that if I do pick someone that I should go do the opposite, because I don't feel like at this point, I can rely on my own judgment because it's so fictitious today. It could be the representative of the person, and then after a while, they show their true colors after you develop feelings for them. So it's fictitious. It makes me very nervous. Makes me very precautious now to even want to have a conversation with someone, because just on guard
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 4:09
Because a person that's one thing I learned about a man. If a man wants you, he's going to pursue you. And I think we as women, when we're being pursued, we don't want to rip the bandage off by telling somebody what we want and what we like because we said, well, he seemed nice, so I don't want my request to run him off. Well, guess what?
You. Hey. Wow. This is a really good question also, because I noticed how there's somebody that was interested in me, but I wasn't interested in him in that way because he wasn't really my type of person, like, physical wise. No. And I found it kind of weird, like, why am I not allowing this man to pursue me or see if he really about being interested in me and getting to know me?
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 4:01
I met men whose heart was broken, and I helped them learn to love again. But in the process, I wanted their heart to love me. But then God says I'm out of order because I sent them to you to heal. And when you realize your destiny and your desires can't mix, the one that I'm waiting for will find me
And the biggest one, women, because they are mind and mood altering to me. So I've had women like this in my life. They were amazing, amazing women. Between comparing them to a woman that didn't exist, going back to that the one thing, and because she wasn't acting like the one, and then realizing later on in life that the one didn't even exist, this is somebody that I made up in my head
And ain't nothing wrong with that. Ain't nothing wrong with that. But me and you, we got to get in the gym. I'm usually about 295, and I'm good there in different parts of my life. I had an eight inch drop in my suits. Sometimes more than that because my shoulders were so big. So I'm like in a 60 jacket in 48, 46 weights, you know what I mean? It's time to get back to that
From. Yeah, I get where you're where you're coming from, what you're saying, and God do blesses us with that person we are meant to be with. If we follow his word and his will for our lives, we're going to come into that direction of being with the person we are meant to be with. There's somebody for everybody out there. I say this as a witness and a testimony of mine
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 4:51
You. So for me, I don't really do the picking and I'm starting to learn that that might be part of my problem. I realized that I attracted a lot of of men who needed Mike mother figures and things of that nature, and I was just like, yeah, that's not what I'm into, but that's what was attracted to me. And a few times I tried to give it a try and I just found myself in that role of mommy instead of girlfriend
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 5:00
It's funny, I look for people who have strengths like mine because although they say opposites attract, I did the opposite thing. And it was a task. It was a task. I'll never want to do that again. So I am a little more cautious of people who are interested in me. I pay attention to a lot because there are certain characteristics that I know I have to have