Good evening, friends. This is prabha here after a very long time, swelling upon the sensitive topic called possessiveness. Possessiveness over possessiveness sometimes leads you to become a failure, to become unsuccessful, to have all the fears and to doubt all the relationship. Yes, of course. Because when you are possessive on something or someone and you don't get the same reciprocation from them, you tend to become disappointed first, angry second. You start behaving out of your way
Fardin Khan
@Fardin.k · 2:32
Because if you don't trust a person, you shouldn't date or be. With someone like that being positiveness will lead you to cry because those relationship doesn't stay as in family if the family is very possessive, the children tends to go away or go far away from their parents because there's a lot positive under many circumstances. So you have said it right about being positive and good luck on your future works hopefully you will write more about different topics. Good evening and stay healthy and safe
Prabha Iyer
@PSPV · 2:09
So we choose, we are like pickies, we pick up our own kind of people and when we don't see the same character in them, we start comparing and all that. That is the reason I thought this topic I should speak upon. And thank you once again so much for dropping into my conversation and beautifully giving your opinion. Thank you, god bless
Nikkeita Sharrma
@Natureadds · 4:54
Am I getting more attention by being possessive or I'm just getting distanced from that person by behaving possessive. Not giving enough space to that person. It's not happening, right? So I can be more polite with my feelings. I can be more polite with the other person. Space is something that I love for myself, and I should give that to the other person as well
Prabha Iyer
@PSPV · 4:47
That person likes us always. That person wants us to intervene in their actions. They take decisions from us. Only thing what I feel is on the contrary, if it works out well, the relationship will last long. But what if something goofs up and you might have to feel bad or you might have to feel disappointed that you gave a wrong time. You wasted your time for a person who do not deserve your love or the affection
Rebel Drace
@itsmeRebelDrace · 1:00
Like the negative outcome is the great insecurity and failures and all the things that you discussed. But is there any positive aspect of positiveness? If there is, please let me know. I just got it a thought and widely just asking you. Thank you, ma'am
Prabha Iyer
@PSPV · 2:05
You. Hello, ma'am. Yes, obviously I actually want to tell you that maybe it does not have many positive qualities because the ideas and the opinions differ from person to person. However, since you have asked me this question, I would tell you that better. In case you are positive about someone and that person also has the same feeling, then done. It's a very healthy relationship, right?
Sreeja V
@Wordsmith · 1:38
Hello, Prabha. This is a very interesting and I think, very vital topic to discuss. And somehow I have felt that being possessive when you are bringing that trait into relationships, I think it is also a product of our upbringing. Very often parents are so possessive about children, right, and would like to have, say, interfere in everything that they do and somehow that spills on into their life. And children learn by observation and experience, right? It's not really what you tell them