It is said because you value the person that relationship more than being right. You said sorry because this relationship is more important than your ego. When you are in a relationship, you have to choose what do you want? Being right or love? And if you want love sometime you have to say sorry even though you are right and to let go if somebody has hurt you. To say sorry if you have hurt someone is what makes any relationship deep, profound and meaningful
Pousali Das
@Pouz_Talk · 0:37
Hi Priya. Ma'am. I am Pousali. And you are absolutely right, ma'am. Sorry. This is very simple and very small word, but huge impact. Exactly. That's very true. This is very beautiful. Swell usage. Very inspiring. Thank you, ma'am. Thank you for that
Disha Agarwal
@disha_aga05 · 1:17
If you say sorry, you turn out to be the bigger person. You are the person who's more understanding and who's ready to give in a chance to that relationship. No matter who with it is. It can be your best friend, it can be your significant other, parents, siblings. Sorry is a word which is used either too much or too less. There's no in middle. This is something which I feel for today's world
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Preshti 57
@Preshtifeels · 1:25
Hello, dear, it's freshly speaking here and thank you. And I was thinking about me, my experience of asking sorry and to be frank, I'm not lying, I'm like this only I always ask everyone sorry, even though it's not my mistake, and simply thank you even there's no need for thanking them, I just go ask thank you, thank you, or I'm sorry, I'm really sorry. Do you think I did the mistake?
So that's the most important thing. It's really important to feel the sorry inside your heart. And it also doesn't matter whether you say sorry to that person or not. When you feel sorry, that is the most important thing. So I really loved it. So thank you for this one
Tanya Mehra
@TanyaMehra · 1:14
As for my experiences of apologizing to people then strangely, I don't find it weird to say it to strangers. But when I say this word to my close people then I feel very awkward. I overcome this awkwardness of mine by my actions. I either start to spend more time with them or start to help them in their course. This is my way of apologizing and making up to them
Urvashi singh
@Urvashi373 · 1:43
We are the only who put it our efforts to keep our relationship healthy and the person we valued by saying a simple word sorry, but other person should also equally concerned about others feelings and one's self respect. So here, I think self respect also plays a very important role in one's relationship. And you have raised one more point that saying sorry doesn't reduce our value. Yeah, I agree. Totally agree. But it sometimes reduce our self respect
Ramya Pachapur
@NotRamya_ · 1:46
Yes, there is no perfect human. Everybody, every human makes a mistake in their lives. And when they say they are sorry, they should mean it. I mean sometimes people say they are sorry but their action otherwise tells another story. Like they are not sorry is a very strong word but people sometimes don't even mean it. And people sometimes misuse this word so much. So if you're sorry genuinely, then please mean it
Wonderful topic you chosen. I like this topic so much. I'm waiting for such good topics in future too. Thank you for choosing this wonderful topic. And my small suggestion to all of you guys is use the word sorry and respect the word sorry. And always ask sorry if you do anything wrong. And please make the word sorry as a valuable one. You bye guys
Awani Tripathi
@Avnitripathi · 1:10
They don't get a simple thing that saying sorry in a genuine and meaningful way can be the most self performing thing they could ever do. That is, they don't get this and they don't even try to say this word. But it is a very, very nice word, just a very simple word to say. But it also holds some powers. Like it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious moment, turn a sad moment into a good one, and it can save many relations
reader 75063
@reader75063 · 2:30
So true. It's amazing how some people don't realize that it's such a simple word, yet makes really a big impact, whether you're saying it apologetically or to just save a relationship. Why do we say sorry? Either we're in the wrong or we want the relationship to not suffer. You have touched upon both of those points very aptly. If you say it just to keep the relationship intact, to continue the relationship
Hunny Soni
@Hunny · 0:26
Hello, Priya Ma'am. And hello everyone. My name is Hani and yes I agree with you. Sorry is a simple word and it has very huge impact. If you want to save family relationships we just need to say a simple word sorry. But if we are in a relationship and we are only saying sorry again and again so that is not fair. The effort is from both sides. That is opinion. Thank you so much
Hello Priya. Thank you for sharing your idea on such an heart touching topic. Because as a human being it's really hard for us to say sorry. We don't realize that it's a small word, it can make a huge impact on other people but still we shy away from saying sorry. But I won't to add like two or three points. It was very perfect to listen from your side. I want to say that as a human wing we all know that nobody's perfect
Renu Mangtani
@Rainu · 2:32
Hey. Hi. Priya. This is Renu here and I was just listening to your very beautiful topic. Sorry. And the way you have correlated it with ego so yes, of course. This is the word where people feel. That why? Should I say sorry and asahiki
Aysha Nihidha
@Nichuz_Ash · 0:48
Whatever. You have told us the truth. Always. Sorry is associated to ego. Rather than being right or wrong, you should be able to say sorry regardless if you are right or wrong. It's just your ego. If you want a relationship to continue, you need to learn how to say sorry and not hurt your egos. And this is, as you have told it's, a small five letter word, but it's really big
Priya Mandhal
@Prriya_3184 · 0:49
In fact, both of them are equally responsible for saying sorry to each other. So this is my opinion on this case. And again, thank you for your reply
Priya Mandhal
@Prriya_3184 · 0:35
Ah, thank you, Nisha, for sharing your opinion over this topic. And you mentioned that sorry is a concern of both the person in that relationship and I totally agree with you that sorry should not always come from one side. If we expect the other person to say sorry in the same manner, the other person also expect sorry from our side. So yeah, it need an equal contribution from both the side. Thank you
Priya Mandhal
@Prriya_3184 · 0:55
Saying sorry with attaching to all your emotion, accepting your mistake and apologizing the person to just forgive you and you will not repeat that mistake again. Then only this sorry is useful. And then only the conflict can be reduced. So thank you for your views
I think everything matters when we have to just apologize to someone. And it has to mostly come from the bottom of your heart. When you have to actually mean it. When you have to actually apologize to a person, I think that is when sorry actually becomes like a light in someone's life. I feel that is how it is. Just to save a relationship
Priya Mandhal
@Prriya_3184 · 0:22
Thanks you very much to everyone for sharing their views, opinion over this topic and also for appreciating my Swell. I'll keep on posting more swells like this. And again, thank you for your views. Thank you very much
People feel like if you are going to say sorry to someone or if you're going to ask for forgiveness, you would be you would not be as great or as that kind of ego that we have, that we have this kind of value, that we are on the pedestal. Of course you are. Of course you are still a high value and high worth individual