You may not be on the level you were on in your relationship, but you could still keep it cordial and have a friendship that doesn't have any type of sexual activities or nothing to it. It's just a platonic relationship as being friends. Bitter now is the relationship where you felt that you both can have a relationship, friendship, I should say, but it turned to the left where one person starts to get nastier and starts to get more jealous or revengeful or whatever the case may be
I can say from my experience, I don't have really many relationships where they've ended. And I have been friends. Maybe they've ended in a traumatic way where even speaking to them was out of the question or who knows what. I mean, I was raised in military. We moved around a lot. Like, every two to four years. I was in a new school, new city, sometimes new country. Not to say it's a crutch, obviously
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 3:15
Because when we got that cool, I could literally ask this man for anything for my son and he wouldn't make it happen no matter what he has to do. Like he would make it happen. And for some reason or another when we weren't together and he would have a relationship and I would say like, hey, I don't care about your relationship. Do you all treat my child well? They can have you. If they can handle you, they can have you
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
But it also gets bitter mean that if you don't forgive and forget in a way to do the right thing in trying to leave what happened in the past, to just leave it in the past, then it's never going to work. And my issue was that I wouldn't say that I'm necessarily like a sensitive man, but I have been within probably the last two years of the marriage, maybe a little longer
This year made seven years, but we had separated in December. That ended on a humble note, because if I wanted to do anything to him, I could have, and I didn't. I was like, you know what? I know better not to be angry and cause harm to anybody that hurt me, and that's what this man did