And the psychologists say that if you tell someone not to do something, it triggers the embedded negative. You ask a child not to do something, child ends up doing it. Or even an adult would do the same thing. But how to overcome the negative in our lives without addressing the negative? So this is why I came across this thought process, equilibrium thinking, by searching deep within
It's really a very intriguing concept. And you have rightly said that when we told someone to not do something, we end up doing it or they end up doing it the same thing. And it is where the EQ thinking comes into play, which refers to the applying practice of applying emotional intelligence principles and skills in our thinking processes and decision making