Its time to make CONFESSIONS about your deep dark Secrets 🌸
You may have inherited these dark secrets from a dysfunctional family, broken a moral code, or fallen victim to something like rape, financial fraud or some sexual harassment that has triggered shame and concealment. So if you're trying to keep secret to protect someone, possibly yourself, from some natural consequences, then I think you need to have a way out. Sometimes we keep secret to conceal the truth because telling it might make somebody angry or might hurt somebody
And I don't know what made never give me the courage to tell that this is how my mom ended her own life, because I never wanted to showcase my mother as being a coward. Somebody someone who was not strong enough to deal with life. So this was one very hard thing in my life that I learned with time, when I myself dealt with depression. I got the courage to understand, yes, it's okay. It's totally okay to not be mentally well
But the one that that I can recollect is right after my marriage, I was posted in Northeast, and I got a married accommodation. And I and my wife, we moved into a new house. It was a big house, and we were setting things up. And, yes, everyone has a past. I also had a past, which, yes, definitely my wife also knew about it. But then I wanted to start new, and I was starting fresh
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
The Bookbot Theory
@Bookbot · 4:18
And that's something that he didn't want as a father. But now when I put this story into the context and I'm trying to dig more and I keep writing and I keep updating whatever I find on the Internet, it's like, become an 8000 words essay so far. I am still curious. I want to talk about it online
And this act of courage in sharing openly motivates a lot of people, because it has been encouraging me a lot, because everybody's experience has something to teach. So sometimes our words resonate with so many of us in meaningful ways. And, yes, I like that you shared how you had those secrets and you wanted to get over with that. And in that attempt, you burnt your journals. But that took a different turn
I don't know why your family doesn't support that. Maybe there must have been obviously there must be some reason after that. But personally, I feel that if you feel that you feel the need to talk about him and share what he did, his achievements, I think you can do it. And we are here to listen to you. And I'm here to listen to you. You can do it privately if you want, if that makes you feel better
So let me tell you one incident. So we had a meet of all the girls. One day, we were actually working in an NGO under a fellowship called as Lead. Like a girl boss. So what we noticed there was when the meet was organized to confess you will trust me or not, I was shocked to listen that these were 15 out of 1513 girls were sexually harassed at one or the other point in their life. Some were harassed during their childhood
The mystic
@The.mystic01 · 3:14
I can say and if rants confessions involves someone close to the confessor such as friend or family member or romantic, I mean to say that he's a life partner, romantic partner it can significantly impact the dynamics of the relationship as well. Sometimes the revelation of a secret may alter the level of trust, intimacy and overall perception of the confessor. It can strain or even break relationships and may strengthen the relationship as well. At the other hand, it may have both the impacts