Men and heartbreak 💔
Men love deeply and passionately, so it's safe to assume that it is difficult for a man to deal with heartbreak. And heartbreak can stir up some really serious feelings of self doubt, inadequacy and loneliness in men. So they even turn to drugs and alcohol to get over it. And just because men refrain from showing their emotion, it doesn't mean they are immune to the effects of a tragic heartbreak. It takes them equal, in fact, more time to heal from a broken heartbreak
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Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 4:17
Hi Pragati. You know, a heartbreak, any kind of emotional mental betrayal is always something which is very, very painful indeed whether it's for a female or for a male. But the only difference is that males are raised in such a manner that they are not allowed to be so expressive when it comes to expressing their pain, their grief, their sorrow. They are supposed to be extremely strong from inside
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:51
They're not looking to be tied down. They won't be dealing with a whole lot of baby mamas. So I don't know what you got going on, but in this century of the world, men are doing their own thing. They're showing and telling two different opposite things in this generation. Yes, there are some wonderful kings out there, but they hidden right now. They getting a self together right now. But the men here, it no, they're not emotional creatures
So this is just a temporary boost of pleasure and emotional connectivity for them and it can be helpful in them to move on. And many guys after a breakup may not consider giving time for emotional healing. They can download dating apps these days and they are out in the real world to find themselves a rebound ASAP. A rebound relationship is when somebody quickly jumps into a serial relationship following a breakup without having the time to heal the previous one
And this topic is very subjective and it differs from men to men and women to women. And everybody has their own coping mechanism. And I think it's their personal choice whichever way they choose because of their previous experiences, because of their own way, own strength and the threshold of how much pain they can handle. So, yeah, I would like you all to share your response. And that's it. Bye
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 4:55
And yes, again, because of society and conditioning, they can't really share it with a lot of people. But it scars men just as much as it scars women. And I think it's just really important to provide safe space for both men and women so that they can grieve their loss and heal and get over it, to move on with their life, or else it can become really difficult
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 4:49
And due to the change of times it's I think something that as men will have to deal with it and we'll have to come up with different ways to kind of cope up with the heartbreak moments that we have. We'll have to open up ourselves and be vulnerable now more because the primitive concept of women being that support system from the inside is slowly relinquishing itself and they have a major role to play there, not some tiny bit pieces role, they have a major role to play there
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 1:47
And I also like how you pointed out that a man who is deeply hurt at a breakup or trying to make things right, as you said, will try calling you multiple times, will ask for a second chance, find ways to get in touch. And it's so true. I think it drives from the man's need to act and to do something before it's too late
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