Rethinking the Older Woman-Younger Man Relationship !!
And in the past we used to hear younger women used to date older men. That was a very common thing. However, it's actually surprisingly common nowadays that younger men, they end up feeling attracted to older women. And why do they like older women? I would like you all to share your views as well here and let me share what I feel
But at any rate, I think it's all about money and security where the men are concerned and the older woman and trust me, older women know that. And also, I think some young men make the mistake of thinking that older women would be oh, so pleased to have the attention of a younger man. Well, that's not true. We who have lived a long time, we women, we don't get all excited and in a flush about much of anything
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:13
Now, if you're looking at someone who is probably in their mid to late twenty s and their attraction for older women, I think that may be a lot more to do with the kind of confidence and assurance that these older women bring as opposed to trying to date a woman in their generation
Like, I still read the other day somewhere that a 70 year old man married a 22 year old girl. That is just absolutely nuts, I think. And then they're claiming that love is beyond age and shit like that. I think that's just utter rubbish. And now that you've mentioned this, I'm just thinking, why are older women dating younger men? Is it because of, I think, the excitement they bring in, or I don't know
Regardless, it begs the question what do these older love interest crave and achieve through these relationship with those half their age? I mean if I imagine my daughter doing this and I'll be little concerned, not necessarily for the obvious concern in an age gap relationship like maturity or difference in life goals, rather for deeper reasons. Like why would a teenage would like to date a 32 year old man? Now, for young girls in particular, being with an older partner has been somewhat glorified
While this isn't a requirement in relationship between younger men and mature woman relationship the latter they are more financially stable and accomplished now. And this gives women the opportunity to reverse traditional roles with a younger partner. In a present society. The are ages reserved for finding partners, starting families and raising children. And this leaves a drying pool for prospective relationships after 40 and above
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:34
The idea of older women dating younger men is a threat to the conventional idea of patriarchy, the idea of a man being in control of the household, the idea of patriarchal privileges go away with this, and that's a threat to patriarchy. So I don't think that older women dating younger men is bad for the women necessarily
So that is just an infatuation, right? So then there is lust, then there is cravings. Then there is those thinking which lies under the taboo kind of situation that is also there. Then there is understanding and relationship. To live with a person, to grow with that that feeling is something which is very important for a human being. Why?
Rohan RR
@SpecialMission · 1:49
It could be because of immaturity or we would be kids or there could be a million reasons. When we meet an older woman, she kind of takes care of us it's role reversed. And we do understand how women take care of men and how we could take care of her because there is a two way street with older women. It's not same case with younger women. When we try to take care, they might think we are creep or all this negative shit comes up
Saurabh Arora
@rememberme27 · 0:38
Well, I guess what he has said is totally true. I have been experiencing that in my past, falling for elder women. But what I feel is that you get to learn a lot of things because at a younger age, a man have different inquisitiveness or curiousness to learn about opposite gender, right? So we tend to know more from them and eventually we fall for them too as well