So the thing is, the art of letting go or the purpose of letting go should not be decided on one situation. Like you can't just let go at one situation. It will be a build up. Like some people say, we should try and everything. Try. Sometimes you have to bend, you have to bow down to your partner. Because there will be days your partner is feeling 60 and you are feeling 40. Your partner is feeling 30, you are feeling 70