And you know why you're not able to move on? Because you are the one who invested so much. You are the one who loved the other person despite all the flaws. And when we have invested so much of our time, energy and love everything, and we have given so much of us to somebody and we have imagined our own futures with the person, you know, sometimes what happens that we are so much associated with the other person that we tend to ignore their flaws