Shanika Woodson
@NStar · 5:00
Making peace with the past #2023 third quarter # half time is over lets get it🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
So I was like, oh, my God. So I can't drink wine. I got to do yoga with my son. And when I did that yoga with him, it was, like, very inspirational and inspiring because I work out in the morning by myself, which is okay and good because I want to be healthy. Another one of my values and what I bring pleasure is being healthy and looking good. So I did that this morning, but I also want to be a good mom
Shanika Woodson
@NStar · 4:55
And this isn't about starting new things because these are things we always wanted to do, but we've been kind of procrastinating or kind of at the crossroads of how I feel about this, I want to hang on to this, but I also want to do this. And now we're trying to see that we have to put in the work to get where we're trying to go, that's just the bottom line, where we're trying to go. It's going to take some work
Shanika Woodson
@NStar · 3:24
And so then you ease up on the punishment, and then it just turns into another power struggle. So what I've learned with the gentle parenting is we try to work together to a better outcome. And it's not my outcome. It's what we as a collective, me and my son or my daughter, see as a collective