I think one of the most underrated cause of adulting is that it also makes us appreciate the little things and moment in life. We start noticing small effortless gestures from people that make us feel better, safe and looked like my sister asking if I need a cup of coffee after noticing how tired I am my friends helping me find stuff at affordable price. When they see I'm trying to save money they understand and they do not make you feel guilty for not being able to catch up with them or live