And so this particular condition, I believe it may have arose from Tia being so vocal about the fact that she is actively dating. And so to protect the children, it may have been Cory who wanted this put in there to protect the children. Hey, don't be bringing all of these guys around our kids. Go do you, but don't be bringing these dudes home. Basically, what he's saying. And so, wow. You do what you have to do to protect your children
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:58
And I only say that because if I'm ready to tie the knot, I'm like, this is my dude, this is my man. He's saying the same about me. And then we meet the kids and there's Pushback. What happens then? Sorry, I had a phone call. I don't know where I left off at, but I had advice from my relationship coaches and they have a different point of view when marrying or dating with kids
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:30
And to your point about introducing children early on in a relationship. Of course, I have no experience in this area, so I'm learning from you. And, yes, I understand where you're coming from. Introducing them kind of early on gets the opportunity to get that awkwardness out of the way. And they do get used to having this person around, should it lead to marriage at some point or become a long term relationship. They're used to having this person around
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:36
But then again, everyone have their own mindset when it comes to relationships and what's acceptable. But yeah. Um, yeah, I really think this is like a power play. But thank you so much for this topic
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:07
And it's kind of like who can exert the most control in this situation? And I felt like since Tia has been the most vocal invisible in discussing her dating situation, maybe Cory was the one that included that clause. Like, you can get the house, I'll let you have the house, but you better not bring these dudes around my kids. One of those situations. But thank you so much, sis for providing your personal experience and your perspective