There are a lot of messages being promoted, and yet you're worried about my delivery, to which Kim did not have a response. Because Charleston is right. And I believe that one of the problems that we face in society in general is that we will miss someone's message because we're worried about how it's being delivered. Now, Kevin Samuels, another popular podcaster. One of the biggest complaints about his podcast from women was his delivery, him being abrasive
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:51
He was coming from experience. And I heard him talk about his mother and them being in poverty and she gets married in her fifty s and she's living her absolute best life and he wanted that for people before it got too late. He saw his aunts die alone. So in Kevin's case, for example, I pretty much agree with his message because I saw his heart and I don't think his delivery was off
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
Like, even with my children, I tell my children that when I'm telling you all good stuff, oh, you all want to listen to me all day. But the minute I start telling you something that you all don't want to hear, oh, now, mama. Okay, mama, you tripping. You getting aggressive or you getting confrontational? No, that's your way to try to shut me up, because you know I don't want to be aggressive
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:09
For me, those people, they're not really that close to me. They're not close to me even in my secular, like even the friends that I have that are not in the church. If they are people who I can't just tell them the truth, then they're not people who I hold close to me. They're not in my what you would call what you all call it a circle. Mine is a period
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:52
Like for instance if somebody's always late to work and I got to get on to them about being late because we supposed to start at 830 and you getting there at eleven every day and I don't told you several times, right? I don't told you and I've been patient. In the end I'm going to say I need you to be to work on time and if you're not then we're going to have to take the next step
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
T.D. McLaughlin
@TDMc · 4:02
So this was actually very interesting. I actually saw the clip this morning and went back and watched the whole thing. Charleston White. The issue with him, I don't think his harshness or his delivery. Sometimes he comes across as combative because he attacks people personally and whenever you attack somebody personally, they're not going to listen to you. I think you said it when you were saying the thing about parents and the way they would talk. You just kind of tune them out
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:26
So while people are getting caught up with the passion, because that's what it was with the passion that's in our voice, they're missing the point that we're trying to make. They're missing the point because they're caught up, as you said, in the emotions of it and in their feelings. And that's one thing that's going on with our generation. There's a whole lot of feelings going on, so no one's really processing things the way that they should
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:37
Know, and maybe it's because I grew up with a dad, and I'm used to a strong male voice in my life. And so I didn't get upset when he came off the way he did. He was firm and he was not emotional. He wasn't easily swayed by people's feelings and wasn't trying to pander to women. He's like, I am who I am, and if you like it, great. If you don't, that's fine, too
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:17
I know the Bible tells us a soft word turns away wrath, and it does. I've learned that with some people, you just have to be very level headed, because that's the way to diffuse the situation, is if you don't allow your emotions to get involved. And that's something I work on because I remember one of my coworkers said, you are so patient. You should be in management or something. I'm like, it's not that I'm patient, necessarily
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:44
When you're trying to get the best from people, you want to bring out their positive qualities. You don't want them to think that they're just a complete dead weight on the team. You don't want them to think they're just a dead weight on the team. You want them to know that they do add value to the team, but these other negative actions is taken away from that value
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:12
And I think in the last ten years or so, he has started to kind of transform himself and invest in his community and do some things like that. And so, yes, he was in the political sphere. He said he was the proper talking suit wearing activist in the political arena. He said that when he was being the professional, nobody was listening to what he had to say. And it wasn't until he started being harsh and abrasive and profane with his language that people started paying attention
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:59
But this one preacher got up, and I'm going to tell you what, girl, from the time that he got up to the time he sat down, he did nothing but hoop the whole time. There was no message. There was none. There was really no messagE. He was just hooping and shouting and getting everybody excited, getting everybody stirred up. And me and my friend kept looking at each other confused, like, okay, but what's the message here?