I don't think that anybody who marries anyone ten years down the road can say, I'm still with the same person I married ten years ago. We all change. We develop new interests in certain things. We develop a new attitude and outlook in certain areas. Our personality grows and develops in certain ways. The way we approach life, the way we approach our marriage and relationship changes over the course of time
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:29
And so I think, like you said, it's a lot of the women that I often hear that complaint from. So getting back to this lady you talked about, I was kind of with her until she said she should have never married him. I understand people grow, and sometimes they can't necessarily survive that growth curve. That's what happened to my parents
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:53
It's like, no, she's going to stay with her husband, and they're going to continue to grow because he's going to reap the benefits of her success as well, and it's going to be a blessing to their family. I just felt like the lady in the video clip that I saw was being selfish, and she did
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:13
And then two, they're going to go out there and find, who are you? 40, you got all the success, but the 40 year old dudes are not checking for you. The 50 year old dudes are not checking for you. So what's she going to do? Not questioning her worth or anyone else's worth, but like, all right, you're going to just drop him and get another man. Tell me where all these men is at
Beautiful MO♥️
@MOnae · 5:00
And because I chose here, it has held me back. And I'm no longer choosing to be here. Because sometimes we meet people along the way and we meet people where we were at one time in ourselves. And at that time he was her choice. Family relationships was her choice. But as we grow and evolve, a lot of times you may be growing and somebody else may not choose to grow
Beautiful MO♥️
@MOnae · 2:45
And a lot of times people are not in agreement with your choices. So what do you do? Do you stay stuck for their comfortability? Or do you stretch yourself outside of the comfort zone? And that's what healthy relationships are. Because some people are seasonal, some people are temporarily and some people are till death do us part. Not everybody's story or relationships are the same
Hell, you can press a button from upstairs, and papers start coming out of a little machine downstairs for homework and all the rest of that stuff. You don't see that as important or part of it? She's like, no, I could have did it by myself. I said, carry a full load and work full time and pay the bills here without me being here. Yes, I could have that's. When I knew
So do you. I mean, go back to school, and I would have cut somebody's leg off to have an opportunity to go back to school to do something that I really wanted to do, because I've been making all my money from the neck down up until the last maybe ten years. Mike some money from the neck up, and I'm talking about starting at 13. Then I leave that for 15. Then, oh, man. Wow. Come out
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
Like, somebody else was saying they don't like the same things anymore. They're not they're not compatible sexually anymore, right? They one person has grown as far as healing and things of that nature, and one person has really taken off in their career, right? But most of the times, you don't hear men say, I've outgrown her. They just say, we fell out of love, and then they cheat. They don't leave