Now, they had a very, very messy divorce, from custody battles to spousal support to who's going to pay for the legal fees, tyrese really had to pay out a lot of money to get free from Miss Samantha. He had to pay her attorney fees, he had to pay her spousal support, he had to battle it out with child support and custody and all those things. And this divorce dragged out in the media for quite some time
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
Yes, mistakes are made and sometimes we take advice for the wrong people. But not only is this woman, whatever her field is, as it pertains to relationships, the question is, should she have known better? That's a rhetorical question. But the main thing that troubles me is that now that she's coming out saying that it was her fault and that she shouldn't have taken advice from the people she has taken it from, the problem is the money was already spent
simmonette M
@thinkingoutloud · 4:43
So, yes, it might seem wild now that she's on YouTube doing relationship expert advice, but I guess I don't think that she can get it done, because sometimes we live it and sometimes we make mistake and that's how come we can be better and give advice out there. And sometimes we might give better advice because we might even give advice that we had needed but didn't given to us
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:38
Maybe you should take more time getting to know them as a person. I don't know what the solution is, but I would just ask you to consider that maybe it's not the women, but maybe it's you, and you need to check your picker. All right, Mo
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:17
But I hate divorce. Yes, I've been divorced twice, but I hate divorce. I absolutely hate divorce. And I'll do anything in my power to make sure that people don't get a divorce. I'll do anything I can to help somebody to not get a divorce, because I hate divorce. I do. I hate divorce. But not everybody feels like that. Some people, it would make them happy to see people divorced. And here's the thing
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:52
They don't get paid to tell you to work it out with your husband, okay? They get paid when the therapist gets paid when you bring all of your baggage to the therapy session. The lawyer gets paid when you sign those divorce papers and make a decision to leave your husband. That's when all them get paid. So why are you expecting these folks to give you sound advice? There's no money in sound advice. That's not going to drive you to them
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:23
They gave advice based on what you were sharing with them. That's all they knew. And so, yeah, the divorce lawyer is not going to help you save your marriage because they get paid based on you dissolving your marriage. So they're not going to help you give you sound advice to help you restore your marriage. Why are you going to the therapist and the divorce lawyer for advice on your marriage? She's a Christian. Why didn't she just go to a pastor?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:56
That's what they do. They're not interested in helping you save your marriage. So I believe she did go to the wrong people, but they weren't wrong as far as I think she went to the people that would co sign her decision. Let me go to the people I want out of this marriage. I'm not going to go to anybody that wants to tell me to say, if I'm feeling some kind of way about my husband