I'm all for anybody going overseas to find love. If you feel like that's what you're being led to do, if you feel like that is where you're going to be successful is outside of the United States, then that's fine. But I guess because it was rubbed in the face of black women that these men were going overseas and all this, and so far I haven't seen very many of them come back with wives or anything like that
kofi Tomi
@usctwarrior · 4:31
You find women in the United States looking for men of certain statues that they want to marry, either doctors, professionals, athletes, et cetera. So it's no different than United States versus the Philippines with the women. Even in Vegas, women might be called workers. Men marry them all the time, too. So women men go to the Philippines and marry a worker there. That's their profession. Just like the women in Vegas or the Playboy Mansion, et cetera, et cetera
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:51
So here in India, I know from experience and also from the general trends that and I don't just say it as a woman thing, it's a human thing over here. Both men and women are so fascinated and drawn and attracted and infatuated by Westerners that they would any day prefer something insubstantial, something temporary with a foreigner than something meaningful and long term with one of their own fellow countrymen or country women
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:52
So they have the 90 where the people go overseas and find somebody, and then they apply for the K One visa and they bring the person back here and marry them. You have to marry them within 90 days, and then they follow them, and then they have the one so they have so many different spin offs now. They have the ones where people go to the other countries and they live, and they have the ones where the people break up
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:49
And of course, if I embark on something new, that's new to me. Of course, if I embark on something, I'm going to show you the highlights of what's going on. I'm not going to show you the pitfalls. I mean, I've seen the interviews of men who were honest and they said that they took their American dating ways to these other countries and they ended up being unsuccessful in dating in other countries in the world like they were in America
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:52
When you were talking about how the Indian women will avail themselves to black American men, but not so much to the men in their own country, I can totally see that. I can see that happening right here in America as well. I can see that happening in America as well. So I totally agree with you
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:37
These men were typically in their later 40s or so, and they were just not having success meeting American women to start a family. So they decided to expand their search to overseas. And some were successful. They were very mature and very focused on what they wanted to do. They had a specific goal in mind, and that was to marry and to have a family
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:53
These guys, they are looking very embarrassed right now. It's almost empathetic. Just find a nice girl, whether it's out the country or not. You don't have to step on other women's necks to do it. You don't have to make fun of other women to do it. Just do it. No one cares
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:05
And I think that once these dudes realized nobody cared, that's when they just started either quietly going about their business or whatever. But to your point about maybe they're being quiet about finding love in these countries, no, they're not. If they were going to be loud about the fact that they were going overseas, you best believe they're going to be even louder if they actually landed a woman that became their wife. They are not going to suddenly just go hush after finding love