Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:47
The Truth About Singleness Pt. 13: If He Tells You He Doesn’t Want A Relationship, Believe Him.
I want to be your man. I want us to be a couple. I want us to be exclusive. Until he says those things, then we cannot assume that we're in a relationship. Yes, we have cute little pet names, and yes, he's calling us because he can tell we miss his voice, and he misses our voice, and he's texting us throughout the day. He may even be sending us cute little romantic type stuff that he's found on social media
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:02
Hey, y'all just want to addend my last swell. I will say this. Men can send mixed signals about what they want in a relationship because they can act like you guys are in a relationship while saying they don't want a relationship, yet they want you to themselves. They really don't like the idea of you seeing other people, but. But they've got other women that they're talking to, but you got to make them exclusive even though they haven't made you exclusive
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 2:47
If a guy tells you, a friend he doesn't want a relationship, take it for what it is and then you have to make the choice, do I want to play the game with him or do I want to go on about my business? Because I'm looking for something serious. And you have to really be honest with yourself because if you think that eventually, oh, he's going to want to be in a relationship with me, nine times out of ten it doesn't change
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:37
But one of the guys, he just recently started a relationship about six months ago, and he mentioned, like, on their first date, he said to her, I would like the opportunity to pursue you for a relationship. He made it very clear. And he also made it clear he didn't tell her to leave her roster if she's dating anyone else. He figured if I do what I need to do, she going to drop some other jokers, right?