They believe you continue to bear children until God ends your childbearing years for you, that you don't go and get vasectomies and tubiligations and all of that. Now, of course, we're not talking about instances where women have to have hysterectomies and what have you. We're talking about people who voluntarily end their fertility, not talking about those who are dealing with infertility or any of those things. Those that are fertile. They can do it the old fashioned way and get pregnant without any issues
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:43
I don't want my daughter to die because her placenta ruptures or something happens and they got to try to do an emergency c section or something, and then we almost lose her. I don't want that to happen with my daughter. And so, yes, I believe a woman does have the right. Now, here's the other thing. I did not have hard pregnancies. My last one was harder because I was 30, and so my body just went through a bunch of changes
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:54
Considering that a woman only has about anywhere from like four to seven days where she can get pregnant, you would think that fertility is not just okay, I'm keep having sex, keep having babies because there's a time period when a woman ovulates and if that sperm is not ready to meet that egg at that right time, which really, like I said, it's just a few days, then there's no baby
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:52
Was that, okay, well, we're going to count, and if we miss it and we have a baby, then it's God's will and we're just going to run with it. But I was speaking more to permanent sterilization methods, tubal ligation, vasectomies, where there is no going back once you go, or there's a very rare chance that you can go back. When a family decides, okay, we've had all the babies we're going to have
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:02
Hey, sis. Thank you for your response. It sounds like, just from my medical experience, it sounds like your daughter has what's called a shortened or an incompetent cervix
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:42
But I've also begun to pray like, God your will be done. I know we want everybody to survive. We want everybody to come out of wherever they're in. But at the end of the day, the truth of the matter is we all die. And it is in God's plan at this point, because sent us into the world, so we die. And so even if the person doesn't die from this thing, they will die from something
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:29
And for me, that's the thing that people don't talk about, is that when people have had miscarriages or they have had children that have been born and then died, not only do their bodies go through a lot, but mentally they go through a lot as well
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:58
And so because I loved him so much, I was willing to do that if the things worked out. If it would have worked out, I would have did it. But now I'm not doing it. I'm not having any more kids now. And actually that's the only person that I would want to have one with if I had one. So I'm done. But I could still have children. I have a Kylina, which is an IUD, and I am very fertile
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:12
So in situations like that. No, I agree with you. I don't think that it's best to continue to get pregnant and have children that you obviously cannot take care of. But I agree with everything you said, and so thank you so much