Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:55
57-year-old Abby Lee Miller says she’s still attracted to high school athletes
However, that was a big scandal back then because this was an adult female teacher who was a married woman having an illicit affair with a young, impressionable student and then waiting for him to become of age before becoming his wife and having two more children with him. See, I find these situations problematic because one of the most grossly underreported one of the most grossly under recognized forms of sexual abuse is when women sexually abuse young boys
Arthur Benitez
@Arthur_Dante · 5:00
Hello. Hey, I couldn't agree more with you. I think that we should definitely have a single standard independently of what we're talking about, of who we are. We talk who are we talking about? Gender should not play a role in a lot of issues and it currently does. And of course we have still tons and tons of things that we need to solve so that we can assure that we are being equally treated in all matters
Arthur Benitez
@Arthur_Dante · 3:37
We need to be like gender blind and start judging the actions of the people by just the actions themselves and not the gender of who are doing them. So for this instance, of course, she was a female and she knew that she wouldn't be criticized for what she would say because it is not the same actually and she knew that
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And so a lot of it doesn't get reported because the boys don't look at it as nothing wrong. But, yeah, if you 14 and a woman is 24 or 25 or 26, anything like that, yeah, she abused you. She abused you. She did. And that's just how it is. But because of the way that society is set up, it doesn't seem like that
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:42
You shouldn't be looking at him like, oh, my God, he's so fine. Like, I want to get with him. Hell, don't put it on social media. And the fact that they're doing that, the fact that so many people do that goes to show you that it's because there's no repercussions for their actions. So I agree
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:44
That's what we are supposed to do when it comes to the youth. We're to teach and we are to mentor. That's it. Now, if the person is of age, 1920, whatever, that's a different story. Still too young, but that's a different story because they're an adult. But again, disturbing. I think I talked about it on my manga, swell on here. There's a manga that's out that's actually a really gorgeous manga
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:31
You need to really rethink this. But we shouldn't be shocked. Again. The movie Sound of Freedom will tell you how children are being groomed at a very young age by sick individuals, adults that should know better. There are really no words to say other than, you need help. I think if I was in a position to interview her and say, why would you say that? Why would you think that that's okay? In what world? That's not cute, honey
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:50
I think they believe that because if a man were to say something like that, they believe there's a higher chance that he will actually act on what he said, that he will actually end up in a family relationships with a teenage girl. But there's less likelihood that a 57 year old woman is going to end up in a sexual relationship with a teenage boy
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:21
And so these men are having sexual experiences with these older women that got paid to do this with them. And that is going to set the tone for how they view sex going forward, is from this experience they had with an older woman. And so I know every man's case isn't that. I know some young boys were forced into sexual acts with older women, older women who were babysitting them
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:10
But when it carries over into a sexual attraction where not only do I think this young man is handsome, but if I ever had an opportunity, then I would risk it all. When it gets to that point, that's when you definitely have a problem. When you see yourself doing things with these young men that you should not be doing with someone underage period things you should be doing with your husband, not with a teenage kid
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:24
They're going to be having a hard time getting these guys away from them. You hear people say things like that, then obviously they see something else in your child that they should not be seeing. But yeah, definitely that double standard. I tell you what, it's crazy. It's inappropriate. Whether a man says it or a woman says it, no almost 60 year old
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:06
Some of the reasons why some of these guys really don't have respect for women or for marriage is because they came across these kinds of women, married and otherwise, that had no respect for their husbands and would sleep with them, whether they were underage or even at the age of consent. But the women had no respect for their marriage, and a lot of men saw that as single men. And this is why they don't put anything past women, and I don't blame them for that