They had not experienced enough of the world to be able to say, I need a woman that can do this. I need a woman that's like this. I need a woman that looks like that. I need a woman. They had not experienced enough life to be able to say, I will only eat at these types of restaurants on a first date or he has to spend at least this much on a date
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:50
It. Hey, Tanya. So I definitely agree with you. I think that we're trying to date and we're trying to date someone to fit into our lifestyle instead of dating and marrying to build a life together. But what's going to happen when you're in your thirty s and forty s and beyond? You're going to have an established life and so therefore you're trying to get someone to fit into your life
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:57
Then we should pray and prayerful in our decisions as to who to build a relationship with. So, no, I don't think that we should be following the world standards when it comes to dating. And to your point about parenting young. I remember I worked with a lady who, I call them second setters. They got one set of kids from one generation, and then they have another set of kids from a different generation
william brown
@FavColorBrown · 1:18
You know that's a very interesting deduction I must say. However I just want to add this one piece to the equation because as a man and having been a younger man and also having been a more mature man in my late thirty s I will say that I was not mature enough emotionally to be married in my younger days and I can say that most men in their early 20s aren't emotionally mature enough to get married at a young age
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:30
You. Hey, fave. Color blown. Sorry, brown. I want to chime in because I think I actually agree. I agree with you. And I think that's kind of how the dynamic has always been. Younger women, older men. Not saying that's the way it's supposed to be, but the way it's been. And so, yeah, maybe by the time a lady's 25, she marries someone 30 or 35, he's ready
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:29
But I think that, in a way, and from my perspective, I think that makes it even better in terms of dating and marriage, the fact that you aren't full of battle wounds and things like that at such a young age. And so I think that could be a plus rather than a minus. But thank you so much for your response. I appreciate it. Bye
Tonya Dewhurst
@BeKind2 · 4:54
And these are questions I never thought of when I was younger. Like, if you want to come and hang out with me and you're interested in me, and I get it, the physical attraction, blah, blah, blah, and that has to exist. And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but I'm saying that's not the stuff that's going to hold your married life together