They're not willing to work with a man. They're setting their ways. And then she proceeded to say that older men are pretty much checking for younger women. And so these older women don't need to waste their time on dating sites and spending their money on dating sites because it's just a bunch of bums on these dating sites and these older men are willing to pay for a younger woman. And she was saying that
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:13
And my question was, does she have a husband? But you answered that and said she does have a husband. So I don't know what's wrong with her, but I'm going to say that's not good advice to tell women in their 50s we're not dead, we're not tired, not really. We have energy and we want to do something with that energy. So if you meet somebody and you want to get married, do it
And if you want to find love and romance and you're listening to Miss Vonda or somebody else and they tell you to give up, drop them like a bad habit. Don't give up. Follow your heart. Follow whatever you want and make some stuff happen. And I don't care how old you are, your night in shining armor is out there waiting for you. And you guys will find what you're looking for love, peace, happiness, at some point when the time is right
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
But somebody who's been married 20, 30, 40 years, 50 years, it's hard for me to take advice about dating from them. And the reason why is because it's so different than it is now, than it used to be. It's so much different. It's so much different. And there's so many things that you have to look out for, you know what I mean?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:07
So, yeah, every man out there is not chasing for a young woman, I think, for anything. Men are looking men do want women that are feminine, that men do want women that are friendly. I don't think that that is limited to a certain age range. You can have older women that are feminine, friendly. They're in good shape. They take care of their bodies that have active lives
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:22
But there are some women out there who are disciplined and that will do what it takes diet wise and exercise wise to achieve their goals. I see it all the time. And yes, older women are set in their ways, but that's because a lot of older women and I'm not making excuses for it, because older men are set in their ways too. You got older men. They don't want to try new things. They don't want to experience new things
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:08
His mother was widowed in her seventy s, and she eventually met another man who was a widow, also widower. And in the beginning, it was all about him, her consoling, him, comforting him, because he had lost his wife. She had experienced that. So she wanted to comfort him and be his friend. They ended up falling in love, and she got remarried at 80 years old
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:18
So, yeah, I think it's about just going viral for most people nowadays, they don't even care about whether people can really get anything from the stuff they say. So, yeah, the thing is, every 55 year old man is not checking for somebody that's 25. That's not true. And 25 year olds definitely ain't out here checking for no man old enough to be their dad or the same age as their dad
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:17
You. Hey, SIS, you better say that again. For the people in the back for the people in the back room and for the people that were standing outside that weren't paying attention. You better say that. That's the dang on truth and you know it. I love it. Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:01
My grandmother was like 80 something and she was on her third marriage. So that's not necessarily true. I think people are looking for substance and not something superficial. Women, men in general are focused on other things. And that right there, that love part is just not it to say that it won't happen at a certain age group. Love can find you. You can be 55 and a person in their 30s or 40s fall in love with you. You don't know
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:33
My trainer was like, we're an hour. But a couple of minutes of stretching, 45 minutes of your day. Get it done. The point is to work out. The point is to I forgot when you call it when you literally break the muscles or bring the muscles to that point, you got to do that. So, yeah, I agree with you on that for sure. That's why they call it working out. You got to do the work
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:33
So, yeah, she's going to be attractive to the eyes, too, make no mistake about it. He miles having her on his arm, you know what I'm saying? And so that's important. But not only that, she has a smile on her face, a smile on her heart. She's very attractive, and she doesn't want to be alone. And so I wouldn't tell nobody to give it up. I would tell women, like, be realistic. Right
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
Well, Jesus, is that the judge with the hat on in the picture? She can only speak for herself because I know some women 60 up that dog on look good and carry their self as the queen that they are. So if she he's meeting men that don't want to be bothered with her, that's on her. And yes, you're going to have to date to see if you're compatible. But I'm still desiring love because love is out there for me
