And I found it to be interesting because I have heard of women talking about younger men being in their inboxes, younger men approaching them on the streets, they're always getting approached by guys that are like 20 years younger than them, but they can't seem to be approached by men their own age
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
But there was a guy who I talked to who I dated for a little bit, and he was 39. I dated him for a little bit and it just wasn't going to work. And I told him, I said, it's not you, it's me. It's just we're at different places in our lives and he wasn't a bad person. It's just, I don't know, it didn't work. Back to this gentleman I was talking to
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:34
But yeah, that's definitely something to think about, right. And like you said, are you going to get with somebody who's younger and they looking for a mama? Because I ain't trying to be nobody mama. I want a man that's going to lead me. I don't want to be in the leadership role
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:10
Would your children see him as an authority figure in the home if he's only, like, five years older than they are? So those are the things that ultimately matter the most. Yes, chemistry is always good, but even after the chemistry, are you going to build a life with someone that is young enough to be your kid or almost young enough to be your kid? And so, yeah, but yes, I have friends that are younger than me
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:59
And if he's looking for a mother figure, she definitely ain't going to respect him. She's going to treat him like a child, like he wants to be treated. And so yeah, to me it just makes more sense for an older man and a younger woman versus the other way around. And we're getting to that age where older men are really older. I'm 45, but still, I wouldn't mind having a man. He's still in their forty s