When we're young, for some reason, we're turned off by men who are just straightforward, honest and sincere. We like the guys that keep us on our toes. We like the guys that keep us guessing. And when men have a lot of substance and when they're really built up, they tend to want women who will be impressed by a lot of what they have established and accomplished. Women that will be impressed by their wealth and their potential and all of that
Kwa NateKo
@kwa · 3:04
I realize that exists, but from the man's perspective, this this whole thing is so wild to me. Like, you bring up the idea of, like, sex, and it's something people don't talk about often enough openly, because it is definitely an underlying factor, at least sexually attractive people as a motivator for the way we behave. Um, and for me, I've never wanted to show any kind of like I've never wanted to get a woman for my money
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:56
I also believe that there could be good people that give chances to the wrong people and that's where the frustration can stem from. I had a friend who, he has dated a certain type of women who take advantage of him and he just gives, gives, gives too much. But it's because of his preference. He chooses these women and it's the type of women that he has. Like his type is the problem
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
So I've never wanted to date those type of men because I've seen growing up, my cousin date those type of men and I've seen how they've treated them physically and emotionally and abusive and not there and date other women while they still sit home and be submissive. So I've never wanted to date the opposite of me
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:30
Hey, Kwa, thank you so much for your response. And thank you for being the exception to the rule. We know that everything is not inclusive when it coles to people. When we speak from the majority of the encounters that we have come across, and I've not come across a guy who tried to buy a lot of drinks for me or any of that stuff in hopes of getting with me. I've not had that
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:14
I've dated my fair share of deviant criminals in my life. And again, it wasn't because of that. It was just that that happened to be part of who they were. I like them. I was attracted to the man, but the man happened to have a dark side to him. And so that's how that happened
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:28
But when you're young and cute, you think you can have anybody and everybody. And so the nice, upstanding, honest guys aren't attractive to you sometimes when you're younger. And so, yeah, now with the men, of course, as they get older, they start developing health issues
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:57
Hey, good evening, everybody. I'm going to keep this short and sweet. I mean, do nice men and women finish last? The answer is no. But there's one condition to it. You know, if you're truly if you're a truly genuine and nice person, a good person, then it's your task, it's your responsibility to and seek out