So she handles the finances in the household as far as paying the bills and taking care of their financial responsibilities. All the while, she has been secretly taking money out of their account and putting it away in what she calls a quote unquote, escape fund. Now, for those of you who aren't familiar with that, this homespun advice that has been passed down to women throughout generations is once you get married, you need to have you a secret savings account
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:23
And the fact that she didn't tell them about it when they came on hard times is like, whoa, from what I understand about men, and I don't speak for men, but I just repeat what men say to me, respect is love, point blank, simple for men. And so if you don't respect him, then it's like, you don't love him. And if he can't trust you, then you clearly don't respect him
Tonya Dewhurst
@BeKind2 · 4:50
But I also think that there's a two sided or two edged sword that they want you to believe in marriage as you're being raised, and you're supposed to believe in marriage and relationships, and you're supposed to have this person who, by the way, I don't believe exists anywhere, that you can trust 100% to have your best interest at heart, and then go on, go forward with that and live happily ever after