Allow me to introduce myself
You can have everything that they said that you can't have and more. But you have to have faith and you have to have the desire to pursue whatever you want to do at any cost, by any means necessary. Don't pay people to do your work. Do your due diligence and do it for yourself. Don't take people's word for anything. Always go behind them and research and make sure that what they say is what it is, because people will steer you in the wrong direction