Not great, but not slamming him either, the dad, because the kid is 50% of the dad. And even though he's very young now, thoughts are going to be going through his head. In fact, as he leaves that conversation, thoughts are going to be going through his head and he's going to realize he's 50% of his dad. So anything that you're saying about his dad, you're saying about him
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 1:07
Having a degree of objectivity about it, just saying the facts with little emotionality, if it's kind of a soft spot, I think is kind of good. Yeah. I think keeping the communication open is what stands out to me the most. And kind of discerning what is okay to say now and what should wait maybe like a couple of years to really unpack. Being careful or selective about that feels important somehow
MJ Brewer
@Mommas_Jungle · 1:14
Absolutely. You hit the nail on the head. This is MJ, of course. And you're right when you said the timing is everything when you're having these discussions. And for someone that doesn't have kids, you're right up there. You think a lot more clearly than a lot of people that do have them. So congrats on that
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:03
But at the same time, you don't want your child to grow up like my friend did, with all of these views of his father that may or may not have been true, but were simply conveyed to him through the lens of his mom. So this was a great swell, and I totally agree with your points. Thank you so much