We have to be the providers for ourselves. We have to be the hard body, you know, personalities, and we have to look out for ourselves and make sure that we're safe and we have to diy stuff around our house and fix things around, you know, and so by all means, we would love, love. And, you know, I came to speak for we. I would love for someone to come and sweep me off my feet and take me out of my masculine energy