So seeing what you desire, the feeling of shame around it, and then being able to confess it to somebody, whether it's to a sex worker or a priest or a therapist, bartender, all those folks that you can just tell anything to and you know that nothing bad is going to happen if there's a safe person. Being that to someone else is really cool, and I'm really thankful for it. Let me see
Hi, Ms. Tris Green. I am I can't tell you how excited I was to see your swell and that you have created this space where people can confess and say their desires, especially the ones that they feel shame about in the day to day lives. Things that people think are unacceptable and what a lot of people would think is not normal and something to be ashamed about. But yeah, I loved what you said just about cuddling
Mistress Green
@MistressGreen · 1:23
But what I really mean is just stand next to me for a little bit. Just the feeling that I get when they're really there, just asking for that virtually just feels sometimes really big. And it's always honored. Every time, every time I ask her what I want, someone will tell me what they have capacity for. That's so f****** brilliant
Gosh. I love that so much. Yeah. Just asking for what you want. I feel like that's even like, a muscle that you have to exercise sometimes. Because I think the fear of rejection is so huge that most of the time people don't want to do it out of fear of rejection. But like what you said, you will ask them and they will tell you what they have capacity for. Yeah. That is brilliant. And how it works, I guess
Mistress Green
@MistressGreen · 2:11
But we just don't talk about that in regular day to day life and golly golly. I love that. Something so incredibly hard to core, like BDSM offers this beautiful tool for getting to know ourselves and building trust. Trust in communication with our partners and the people around us too. Oh, it's so cool. I'm so glad that I get to share. Everyone and people are engaging. Thank you. Bye
I don't know what it is about it, but I think it's amazing. And I wouldn't mind trying new things, but it's about me being comfortable with my sexuality and just being comfortable with sex in general due to past trauma with past people, and I want to get out of that funk. So, yeah, I'm interested to hear what you have to say going forward and everything, and I really appreciate it
Mistress Green
@MistressGreen · 1:57
Like, I show up and people are down on their knees, I'm like, okay, cool. You all did the work by yourselves? Just by my presence. All right. I'm really glad that you had the experience of giving that a try with your partner and experimenting. That's so cool. Thank you so much for sharing your comment with me. I really appreciate also, I really like your icon, your top and the peekaboo sides of that bottom is really nice. Thanks
Chelsea Hanawalt
@allowthesun · 2:58
Not to say that everyone has to be comfortable, of course, talking about their private lives, but I think it is so important and for me, yeah, it's taken a while to ask for what I want. It's gotten a lot easier, takes practice. I feel like most of the time, my partners have always been very respectful responses, and so I'm always like, why did it take me so long to get there?
Jack .
@zejacques · 3:31
I just realized it was other people not being comfortable with their own sexuality. And as I got older, I met different partners or friends I was able to openly discuss and try things with. So, yeah, my just confession is, when I was younger, I did feel a little bit of shame and guilt for my sexuality, and it took a while to kind of figure out for myself that that's me and that's what I love. So thank you again. Welcome to Swell
summer Kim
@energyboast8 · 2:48
So I'm so glad that I'm here. I just recently downloaded this app and knowing that we have the opportunity to speak up and then there is I'm not alone. So thank you for sharing, Ms. Grains, and thank everyone. And I look forward to hearing more about this because I really wanted to enjoy exploring this kind of fantasy on my own and not to feel ashamed of it. It's okay. We love our body. We want to explore. Thank you guys
Mistress Green
@MistressGreen · 1:21
You might find them somewhere completely different in a totally different season of your life. So thank you so much for for that and also for all the warm welcomes. Really lovely. Thank you. Bye
Mistress Green
@MistressGreen · 1:21
No, no, you're not alone. And life is short. There's so much in our upbringing that is trying to like, keep us in a way that is like controlled and protected, in a way. And as you grow older and break from the patterns that you're raised in, you'll discover things that you really enjoy, like, oh, my parents don't do this, but I like to do this
