In my mind, I think the best way to deal with the situation is realization, remembrance and gratitude. You should realize that you are unique and have a completely different path than the person you are being jealous of. Secondly, if you think that you didn't get the desired results and the other person who used the same methods as you did accomplished way better than you, sit down and remember all your achievements in the past that you are proud of
Tanjot Singh
@whothetansin · 2:16
Hello, Manalika. Completely agree with you. So whenever I am attracted to something, I make it my inspiration. I just follow it and I make my mind to someday to reach till there or someday get it. For example, I am jealous of Elon Musk. He's such a great entrepreneur and a good human, too, with a very high level of practical thinking and intelligence and not using the word jealous, but I am attracted to him, and he has kind of became my inspiration
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:54
Yes, you are absolutely right. I mean, I have also noticed that if Mr. Tumor ever College friends, for example, the one who are your own level, mother, Kiku tomorrow, tomorrow may be able to do it, but obviously. But on the other hand, that's when we call it jealousy and inspiration. You know that you have to try if you want to achieve a certain level, but you know that the person is well established or achieved. It's not going to change
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 0:32
Exactly. And I guess some humps are thankful only we deserve it. So ups and downstairs and where you are really working for it and you really want to accomplish a particular goal and obviously
Shashwat Amonkar
@Shashwat21 · 2:31
That's the reason he is getting all those incentives, which you are getting kind of jealous about. Right? First of all, acknowledge people. And secondly, by training your mind to think big, thinking big. It will, of course, allow you to suppress jealousy in your life. Okay. It will help you for sure. How. Now, I'll just give you an example. Say, suppose someone has gotten a bike of, say, suppose two lakhs
Tanjot Singh
@whothetansin · 1:33
But there's a factor. Jealousy. It's temporary. For example, the example you took, a friend purchases a bike worth rupees to Lakh, and you get that feeling that I am I don't have that bike, or I will buy a better one. It's just temporary. Either you will forget the same thing in a week or two, or if you somehow manage to buy a better vehicle than that
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:14
But there are situation where people think that, yeah, this guy is gaining whatever he wanted to gain, although I want to gain something else, I will still gain. Like I still try to achieve what he achieved because I want to show him off. There are situations that people do that. And I think it shouldn't be the situation because you're deviating from your own journey, your own path, or your own accomplishments and goals. So you should think big
Jared Bogda
@JCB07 · 2:36
So thank you so much for sharing. This is an interesting thought process, but I think everyone should realize that they need to be having with themselves and proud of themselves for whoever they are and not compare themselves to others
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:35
Yes, exactly. I mean, in this rat race, like the world we are living in is filled with competition and stuff, and most of the time it's not healthy. So yeah, you need to understand that maybe the person you are jealous of has more amenities than you do do, and this is the reason why he achieved more than you. Maybe if you work hard and achieve those basic amenities that was required to achieve that particular goal, you may reach the same level