So I'll give you an example that's like, you walk into a room and you're mingling. It's a mixer. You have 20 people. They're going to be a certain people that you gravitate to. You feel like you have been knowing them all your life. And then you go on the other side of the room and you have those will, the chemistry, the vibration that's off, you can't really connect with them
And do you view it as a personal sacrifice or commitment, maybe, to making sure that you just know that you figure out what you want and it's less determined or less emphasis on what other people have done or choose to do? Obviously, in saying that, I completely understand that there are people we want to be as closely as you said, equally yoked as possible to the person we decide to be with