And now they want to go to a bigger playground and a real, true friend that can look and see your friend is moving different. It shouldn't be looked at like, oh, they must think that they're better than me. No. Or oh, they act indifferent. What's that about? And you take it like you're beefing. Something happened and it's not the case
Khadijah H
@Mindsetmatters2 · 4:57
I'm at the point in my life I refuse to have anything other than that. And because of that there are friends that I don't talk to, our associates. I would say that we don't talk like that. We have nothing to talk about because I'm going in a different direction and they're also going in a different direction. But I don't have time for nonsense
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:23
Because at the end of the day, if you can say, you can tell me how you feel, whether it's about me, and even if I get mad, happy or sad, I'll be able to receive it to have a productive conversation. And that way it contacts me. Do that and have that conversation. You can't do it. That right there is an indicator to me that you still have a ways to go in your healing process, and that's okay
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:07
You get kids, you get a family. You marry one wife, and you die with that wife. I went the unconventional path. I was like, let's drop out of it. Well, in some cases it is conventional, unfortunately. But yeah, dropped out of high school, got a nine to five job and had kids, and now we are with me in present time. But there's been a lot of growth and meaning in that
I actually just did a post on my IG and Facebook about, be careful discussing your close friends business with acquaintances. That's just the acquaintance, the acquaintances opening to destroy, to divide and conquer and destroy friendships. I mean, people see you have a close knit circle, and it can be a little envious to others because they want that. They lack that. And I am very open and honest with my Circle. They can come to me. I'm a vault
But then he circled back, got his GED on the first try, and now he's in business for himself. He has children. Society does not get to dictate the moves of people, especially with the foundation that we were brought up on. Society doesn't have any clue as to how to live life. They don't have the blueprint. If they did, would we be living like the way we are today?
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 2:13
It may not be in the cards for us to take that any further than where it has gotten to this point and be okay with that. Cherish the memories, cherish the history, and just file that, you know, in the mental rolodex of life, like, hey, you know, we once had something beautiful, and it will never change how you felt about that person, but I would rather do that work now before it gets to a point of no return. And I hope that helps
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 4:43
God forbid you want to deviate from that plan and do something. You're unstable. You don't get it with so many labels and there's so many things that people put off on you and how they define what success is. You can't define what success is for me. You can't be a person that tries to be the architect of my life. How can you do that?