Self Love v/s being human. What’s the middle ground?
You know when people say that when they talk about selflove and how you need to be selfsufficient and independent and love yourself first, and therefore you have much more successful relationships because then you know not to burden the other person with all kinds of expectations because you are fulfilling them yourself and all of that jazz. But I'm reading this book called Conversations on Love. I've just started to read it, so maybe the answer to this question lies in the future chapters
And it's kind of like when you're not staring directly at a star, if you look just off to the side sometimes if you couldn't see it looking directly at it, if you look off just to the side, you'll finally be able to say there's a star there. And I think sometimes when not aiming for seeking of a relationship or whatever like it just organically comes, right?
Arif Makhdoomi
@maddy007 · 3:46
And if you know the peace it gives being alone it really connects you to the other level of energy and to the other level of confidence because what happens you are not function of anybody, you are not bothered about anybody you are absolutely what you are
Aayan B
@aayanisms · 4:29
Whatever that I'm saying is nothing is out of syllabus. And so in my case at least, I try to keep things simple in the process. Core philosophy that I maintain is in life if you exit with a 90% success rate or for everything love, wealth, happiness, everything. You know, you all all whatever the ingredients that you swell have in life if you exit with a 90% success rate make peace with the fact that 10% will always be bad debt
But what I was basically trying to get at is I wonder if this argument that people make that you need to first prepare yourself to be worthy of the moment, if that's correct, because then that's subliminally sending the message that you're not worth it yet or you're not deserving of it yet. But what if you you have done all the work and you are deserving and you are fully prepared. It's just that it's just not happening
Maybe I'll try throwing a few questions your way and see what pops up. What is, quote, unquote, the moment? And what does it mean to be, quote, unquote, worthy of it? I feel like the rest of the questions, everything else hinges on how one defines the moment and, quote unquote, worthiness