Stop Blaming Your Wife and Kids
And then you're giving someone way too much responsibility and you're taking too much responsibility away from yourself. So stop blaming your wife and kids. It's not them. It never was them. It was you. You invested enough time into them for them to exist. You spent enough time for your wife to become your wife. You chose her over other things. This is a this is a process. This is a habit. That's okay, that's your thing. That's your wife