Now it can be with your family, your parents, siblings, or the significant other, your partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever you want to call them, your kids. So is it good to have expectations with them or it's not worth it? Because what I have experienced with having expectations is it does lead to disappointment. And then there comes a swirl wind of lot of other emotions that come with it which are definitely not good
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:57
How much access does this person have to me, if at all? And the same for them, they have that same decision point. How much access or not do I give JL since she has blatantly disregarded my boundaries? And from that space is the space that I've found to be less stressful and more focused on my desires and creating the life that I desire and aim to achieve each and every day. Now, in addition to that is communication
I feel like, yeah, if you want to be an enlightened being truly, truly dedicated to an enlightened life, one in where it would be very difficult to live and operate and exist in modern society, I feel like you could definitely renounce some freedoms and find a space where there could be less things to expect, quote unquote. But we have to consider what the gains and the takeaways are for these decisions
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Ava K
@Learningtobeme · 3:59
And I've started doing that with my family too because as we are all growing, we're in different stages of life. We are not kids anymore. Everybody gets involved in their life. They have their own situations. So if you keep them free from your expectations out of them, it's more easy for the relationships to thrive rather than if we start putting our expectations more on them
Ava K
@Learningtobeme · 4:50
We are at that position, you and I maybe that we understand this with the boundaries and with our self care, self love but others are not at all associating them with it. So this is how they behave. So this is what my point was. Thank you so much for replying though. I really appreciate that