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Cheryl Dennis
@Lavendermenace · 4:55

Mixed messages

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It was like, we started talking one day after pickleball, and we just kept coming up with other things to talk about. And it was beautiful. And I said, hey, why don't we go get a drink sometime? And then it began. So we went for our first date, and she was not calling it a date. She was like, this is a non date. And I was like, okay, it's a non date

#dating #avoidantattachment

@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 1:07
Thanks for sharing your story with us here on swell. I thought it was very moving and touching how you and that lady met versus maybe how you will remember each other as you move on in your lives. Mixed signals can be quite annoying, but I think you handled it well. You're very direct in your approach, and when you were curious about something or you were unsure, you. You verbalized it. I can't tell you how often
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Cheryl Dennis
@Lavendermenace · 2:40

@FryedOreo

But I think she's, you know, I see her and I see her struggling with making changes in her life and healing from her divorce and moving on, and I care about her. So I sent her those and, you know, the rest is up to her, I guess. But, you know, they say you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink
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