Why make yourself unhappy for even one precious minute of your life by harboring resentment, anger, irritation, annoyance at some minor incident which you are going to forget sometime anyway, your mind, as a kind of self defense, will evade unpleasant, irritating thoughts and tend to turn to more pleasant areas of interest. So sooner or later, and probably sooner, you're going to forget the minor annoyances of today. So why let them interfere with your happiness now?
Chhaya Saini
@shimmythatsoul · 1:01
Hello. Hey. Hi. So, thank you so much for sharing this from the book that you are reading. Can you tell me which book is this? And secondly, if I'm understanding it, right, are you suggesting, of course, by way of this book, that when anything is happening to us, we should just forget it? Because initially we are going to forget it. Right? So why not become thick skinned?
moksham bliss
@lakshmi.deepa · 2:06
Emotional trouble, wounding, everything happens. But we should be able to overcome it or quickly come out of that kind of an emotional stress and react. Understand the fact that everything happens for our own good. Nothing is permanent. It's going to change for sure, right? So when you have that kind of understanding, you can easily think, okay, even this, I'm going to forget it in future. I'm going to proceed in my future days
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Chhaya Saini
@shimmythatsoul · 0:38
You. Thank you so much for explaining it to me. I really appreciate. I just want to ask a few things that when you say that eventually we are going to overcome it and eventually we are going to forget it, I want to understand that how on our own we really overcome something like this. Like if there is a trauma, if there is something, some wounds are there, you know, how do you reach to that stage that you forget things or you feel that you are overcoming?
moksham bliss
@lakshmi.deepa · 4:42
But at one point when days goes, this kind of distance between the mom and the kids will create that kind of. When she's not providing anything, mom is not providing anything. She is just completely detached from the daughter or son. Now the daughter or son feels that, okay. She is not bothered about me. She is taking care of herself only she is not even carrying me and why should I bother about her? What mistake did I do?