Now of course there are girls who do not have that father in their life, but they may have some other father figure, an uncle, a stepfather, someone that they can trust to let them know I am here for you. You are a beautiful girl and the man who comes to your life is going to have to realize that and they should bring you up and not bring you down. As you can see in my photo, both of my girls are beautiful girls. The oldest is 16