Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:40
I'm going to get at this because I'm angry now, and anger in the workplace or anger at home or I don't know. Anger can be a good thing. Anger can be a bad thing as long as you're not hurting anyone. I don't think anger is a really bad thing. I think when I get angry, it makes me think clearly
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:13
Go listen to some music, go rock out, but clean up. Do something, make something. That way your anger doesn't destroy. It actually helps. So I try to focus after I'm initially anger, angry. Because I know if I get too angry, I'm going to send I'm going to say some stuff, do some stuff, whatever. But nowadays, just to give it a minute, be mad, say, okay, Evelyn, be mad
Now, if you seal that thing up, that whistle becomes a pressure relief valve. So it works good because it's not going to let the pot blow up, but if it gets stuck open, then it's not going to build the pressure, and it's not going to heat up, cover emotion. And I haven't found any place where it was used like that for me. And, I mean, it's not like you make a decision to do that
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And so you have to be mindful of that, and you have to prepare yourself for that and not allow that to get you sidetracked or to get you off. Kilter when I first originally heard this, I started laughing because I thought about my children when my children were younger, I think they used to intentionally make me upset. I think they did it on purpose. And the reason being is because when I would get angry with them, I would start to clean, right?
bhawna gola
@Priyaroy123 · 0:36
For example, we may feel anger alongside feeling attacked, powerless, embarrassed, or scared. And it motivates us to push for changes in the world or to help others who are being treated badly. So thank you so much
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:54
I just would have to calm down, I guess, and use it for something positive. Like I said, I try my best, but everybody does get angry, and sometimes we don't make the best choices or decisions. But yeah, that's why I was asking. Is anger really a bad thing? And sometimes yes, sometimes no. Thank you for responding, though. I really appreciate it
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:24
Are you angry or what pissed you off, what triggered you? Same thing here. I used to be so wicked with my mouth, and now I try to curb that so much because I know once I say something, I cannot take it back. And most of the time it's something I would say that people will remember forever. So I'm a good person and I want to remain that way
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:25
Thank you so much. Yes, I do think it's a healthy emotion. Like Ms. Andrea was saying previously, every emotion that God has given us, we are due to have. And he wants us to be able to use every emotion and to be able to conquer the bad ones. Because not that he gives us anything bad, but we can use it for bad. Jesus was angry in the temple, and I'm sure he was angry many times, but he did not hurt anyone
