Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:30
#askSwell | What makes you LIKE a person? #feelings #introductions #ladyfi #societyandculture
It. You know, liking each other and loving each other are two very different things. But it's a wonderful thing when you can find someone in your life that not only do you love, but you actually like being around them. You like spending time with them. You like their personality. You like how they treat people. You like how they make you feel. I mean, that's part of love, right? But before you get to love, you got to find like, right?
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:16
And I think when I was saying, I'm no longer in love with you, I think that's when I was saying, like, I don't like you, if that made any sense. The person had made choices and decisions that weren't in alignment with my value system. And not that I need everyone to be my twin, but these decisions and choices didn't even benefit him. They were hurting himself, and he couldn't see it
Maurice Lekea
@malekea · 4:29
And when you respect your word, you say something and you respect it and you promise something and you do it and even you are not able to do it. But at least to say that you couldn't do it for this reason, for that reason and I like that someone who doesn't I don't really value lie. Lying is so because it's no way you can trust someone who lies all the time. It's painful. Yeah. And then beauty also comes
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
It honestly, I think that's an absolutely amazing question. And I think it's something that you really have to think about before you just say an answer. It's something we should also think about a lot more often than we do because I think we get into a mindset of the things that we like about a person or the things that we love about a person and those are two very different things
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:23
Thank you so much for commenting on this. Well, you know, with you being 20, you are very wise. And I remember being 20, wow, so long ago. But anyway, thank you so very much for commenting because I loved it. I thought your answer was quick and concise and beautiful. I appreciate that and
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:33
And then when you said that about celebrity worship, a lot of people are coming to that realization that celebrities are just people and people are fallible. We make mistakes, we do things wrong, they're not perfect. They're put up into the limelight, but sometimes they don't even want that kind of light because it shines on them. They have no privacy and they have to live up to certain standards, sometimes more so than we do
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:20
But when someone ties into the feelings, attributes, values, morals, thought processes that you share, that's when you can say, okay, I kind of like them. So thank you so much for commenting on this. Well, as usual, everything you said was great, and I appreciate you. Thank you. Bye
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:32
And then the few things that I overheard, conversations amongst the adults, things that you see in movies, so on and so forth, me just trying to piecemeal these things together, conversation amongst groups of women. I can't really say I really heard men talk about dating and relationships that much outside of just a negative view. When most men get married, it's like, oh, you're like ball and chain now, or your life is over. Now was not really said with excitement
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:30
I loved your answer. The fact that you should take time to get to know each other. My husband and I, we did that. We talked and talked and talked and talked and talked and talked some more many times and short activities because I didn't have a lot of time because I'm a mom. I was a single mom at the time. So I thoroughly agree with that activity. Less talk, more. I loved it
