Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:57
| #askswell | How do you tell your husband that his female best friend is truly getting on your nerves that you don’t like her ?
She just looked right past me on several occasions. And now he still wants to be her best friend. I thought if I have a best friend, it's your best friend, and if you have a best friend, it's my best friend. But in this case, now she can keep on friending over there because is look, how would y'all tell her? Seriously, I need some help. Right?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:12
I don't know if she's married or she's still single, but if she's married, she needs to be with her husband mostly. And if she's single, then she needs to find her some single friends that she can kick it with. Because your husband is now married. And so you all can't have the same friendship you all had before he got married
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:19
Thanks for your solid advice. I appreciate that. Once again, brought clarity. I appreciate it. I will apply some of that, and I appreciate you even responding. Thank you. My prayer for you is that you'll be safe and that the Lord will look out for you always. Bye
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And if he truly loves you, he'll respect your perspective, he'll respect your wishes. And he may not stop completely talking to her, but he definitely will do what he can to make sure that she don't disrespect you, right? So that's just my advice. I would just have a conversation and just let him know what's going on
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:29
She was there for him. I don't have a problem with my husband going anywhere with his friends. But his friends need to be of a certain caliber. They need to be nice people. And if they're not nice people, I know him. He won't associate with them anyway. However, she's very crass and rude, and I don't appreciate it. But I will have that conversation again with him, just to see where his head is at
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:42
How many best friends do you have? But anyway, thank you. I appreciate your response because it was open and it was honest and it's more else in line with what I was thinking. Anyway, thank you
When the thing is over, or if it's over, then we go from there. But right now, I'm going to stay true to what I'm doing so I don't put myself in that situation. But now I don't believe that there is a male female friendship if both of them is married, if all four of y'all ain't going out together and you and her ain't cool, then guess what? It's been something going on or something that could possibly go on
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:37
But I think that she should show some respect, act if they were friends previously, I'm okay with that, but you got to back up now. I'm his best friend. You want something, you go through me. Because if I wanted something from your husband, I would ask you, not him. I'm not all up in a man's face. I have respect, I have class. I'm a lady
