Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:22
#VoiceYourOpinion | People don’t understand the damage they do to you until it’s done to them by someone else. Is that an accurate statement?
It. You know, people don't understand the damage that they do to you until it's done to them by someone else. Right. How do you feel about that statement? I mean, is that a true statement that if someone does damage to you, they don't really know the damage they did to you until it's done to them by somebody else? Or does it have to be the same thing that's done to them in order for them to understand? I don't know
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 4:35
So they are just riding that wave until something else come along. What the young people call a come up. You are just a come up right now. So you may have a beautiful home. You invite this person into your home to live with you, you give them all that you can and then they go out and leave. Why? Because there's something else that they feel is better than you. So it's not about the relationship
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:03
Let's say you cheated on somebody and then you get cheated on. The fact that you cheated on somebody before meant you had compromised morals. So do you really care that somebody cheated on you? Not really, because they just doing what you did, they have compromised morals as well. So I don't think that people learn that way. And I do feel like people just don't care
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:51
I would like to build and grow with you. And I still like the option to be with other people. Then that would have gave her the ability to give an informed consent, a willing consent to be in that type of relationship versus being dangled, the dream of having a monogamous relationship or the vision of having a monogamous relationship and then that not taking place. So that's just an example
dee felton
@MrDee · 3:28
Or they'll say, well, you aren't in a monogamous relationship with this person, so they're free to do whatever they want to do. So it's like curving something to fit your circumstances. And we do that in a lot of different ways of how we treat people. Oh, you should be able to say what you want to say because it's free speech. So that means if I want to curse you out, I can't
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:29
It. Thank you so much. You're absolutely correct. See, that's what I'm talking about. You can do what you want to do. You can say what you want to say. Oh, I can say what I want to say. You can't stop me. This is my opinion. I'm entitled to my own opinion. You can do what you want. Like you said. Oh, I'm a free spirited person. We weren't in a monogamous relationship
