Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:41
#askswell | If you’re child got in an argument with their significant other, would you get in it?
But if your child was arguing with you, was arguing in front of you with their significant other, and I say child, I mean adult child, not a child child. An adult child is arguing with their husband or their wife or their significant other or their boyfriend girlfriend, et cetera, would you get in it or would you stay to yourself and let them handle that? And then some people will say, well, it depends on the argument. What are they arguing about?
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:14
They needed to take a moment away from each other to just realize that they don't mean what they say, they're not going to do what they said they were going to do, and they need to calm down and just come to an agreement. Relationships are work, and people need to realize that communication is key. It is pivotal to a relationship. If you cannot communicate, then there is nothing. Sex is good, but come on, communication is so much better
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:58
But I believe that because my children have children with other people, their child's, other parent, I need to keep a good relationship with. Because if the relationship between my child and that other parent breaks down, then I need to be able to be the go between to make sure that my grandchild still has both of their parents in their lives. And that's my job
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:10
That made me laugh so hard, because, yeah, it's on site. She put her hands on him, and, yeah, as soon as you see her, bam, it's over. But, yeah, I get what you're saying. I try not to get into it. I only get into it when I know that it's going totally left. And then I'll intervene and try to talk sense into them because I know what it is to be young and mad
