Because, like I said, at this point, I don't even want to go to the funeral. I really don't. Because the next time I see my sister, it might be two funerals. This is sad. It's unbelievably sad. I'm definitely gonna need therapy. I got PTSD from planning my own dad's funeral. This is ridiculous. And before you say wow, why are you saying all this? Trying to help somebody. I'm trying to help somebody in this
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:58
She's like, angela, this ain't nothing. She's like, I see it with absolutely every family, and I've seen worse than this family. She said, I don't care who you see holding hands and smiling together as a family on Sunday mornings when something goes down with their family, such as a funeral, I've seen the worst. I've seen the ugliest. And it's common, unfortunately. So hopefully it makes you feel better, like you're in good company
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:57
Again, I'm keeping you in my prayers, sending you hugs. Y'all get through this drama. Y'all get through it. Once the service happens, it'll all be over with. Everybody go back to the respective caves and you'll move on with life. Because I've been there and done that. And it's hard. But family drama somehow can't be avoided. Grief just adds to the fire
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:23
But I am grateful to know that other families have been through this, and we will get through this, and hopefully it'll be just fine. Even if we have to, you know, do an Oscar performance until this is over, I intend to do just that. So thank you so much. I really appreciate
Wow. Oh, wow. I totally feel you on this family drama. Not my thing either. And I am one that also ducks out. I'm just like, man, I just. I don't have the patience to tolerate nothing for it. So I totally feel you on it. Best thing I guess I can say is just do whatever you can and think of your dad and that's it. And anything else that comes up
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:22
Thanks, Miss Leanne. Yeah, I tried to just remove myself from the situation for a minute and see what's up next. Just taking it step by step by step because, no, I really don't want to go, but I probably will because he's my dad. But, yes, it's a step by step thing, and that's how I'm going to take it because otherwise I probably would. Would lose my mind at this point
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:18
But just realize that your experience for your dad dying is not the same as your siblings experience. You know, they have their own feelings in their own ways, their own processing. And it's unfortunate that usually in families, there's usually that one person that does everything, and you're it, but you're it for a reason because they're not strong enough to do it. But give her one task and see what happens with that
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:56
Thank you, KK. You know my sister, the one I'm talking about, she is in charge of everything. She has delegated tasks to my sister and I. My sister's doing the food. I'm doing the slideshow and the music. I don't know what the heck my brother is doing, but she's feeling guilty about something and I don't know what it is. She's hateful and she just continues to be hateful
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:08
Hey, I'm gonna. I'm gonna say a prayer for you two and your sister and your whole family, because death is hard enough then to have to deal with the extra stuff. And, you know, I kind of listened wrong because I thought that you were in charge
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:01
She's just acting like a horrible person right now, and everybody grieves differently. Right. But I could just strangle her. I really could. But I'm just gonna, you know, concentrate on the tasks that I was given, and I'll see them on Thursday. I'm not going over there until then because I don't want to see them until then unless I have to. But anyway, thank you so much, because this gives me insight as to what's going on
