But these young men nowadays, like majority of these men, they work with some dangerous a** feelings and some vendettas and some black little hearted love and s*** but they think they loving the next person and giving them everything. But little do they know they got a ticking time bomb over here because this is what I do not like that these men do. And I'm going to tally up how many men done this. All nationalities, purple, green, gray, red
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:29
I know what happens a lot of time is that based on how the society has shaped and molded the men, we're supposed to be the ones that are not as emotional. We have to be more logical. And sadly, what happens a lot of the time is when it comes to things like that, like breakups and divorces and things of that nature, it's very hard for us to fathom because it's a lot that's coming down on us
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:16
A lot of them, these men, and I'm just speaking for what my husband and I talk about because he's a guy. And so he said, there's a lot of darkness in these men. I don't know if they just didn't get enough hugs or they haven't been socialized to process their emotions better. And even though women can break down and be crazy as well, women, we're typically emotional creatures anyway. What I mean by emotional, I don't mean weak
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:27
The way the society has shaped and molded us is like we're so if men do get emotional, but then in a sense, it's like a lot of us are not emotional enough. We don't really know how to confide and really talk to people more. So, like, if we have a partnership with a wife or just a partner or a girlfriend or just a relationship in general, it takes a whole lot for a man to really break that wall down
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:02
I just think that they need to if they need to talk to someone, I really do think they need to seek someone to talk to, because men go through things, too. And we know this if you're a person in general anyway, you're going to go through something on Earth. But there needs to be healthy ways to process those emotions, and that anger it. And again, it's all about balance
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:17
So again, that's something that the men have to work on in regards to just that communication and learning how to open up, not saying they got to do it with everybody. I mean, at one point I was very private. I'm still private about a lot of things, meaning I don't want but need everything to be emphasized. But I moved from a step up, from private to reserve