Why is it hard for women to move on but men can with no problem?
And my question is today, how come women can't do that but men can, with no problem? How is it even possible that a man that stood before God and the congregation to make vows for better, for worse, for sickness and health, rich or poor, to death do you part knowing his wife is not dead, but still can move on like it's no problem? But us as women, why do we have a problem with trying to move on? It's nothing
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:54
So I guess that's my point, the encouragement that if you are honoring your vows and you're healing your heart, don't be afraid to do that. Autumn Men folks going to be there when you are ready and when you are legally divorced and when you don't feel convicted. So that's some encouragement for you. But yes, some people can move on very quickly. Again, I'll say both male and female
Yeah. Hey, thank you. Thank you for chiming in and giving me those words of encouragement, because Lord knows I need it, because I was just sitting here and I was watching an episode of this TV show, and the husband, or the ex husband brought his girlfriend to the family dinner, and that's why the question came up. I'm like, Why is it okay that a man can just move on just so fast?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:02
Hey, it's JL. And my energy is still good. I'm gonna give you two responses. Because you asked for advice, I'm gonna give it. And depending on where you are, energy level or mindset level, you can pick and choose which one you would like to listen to or what day you would like to listen to it. So this is my superficial face value stroke, your ego response. And sometimes as humans, we need that. And that's okay
I devoted myself. I made it my business to live for God, and that means every aspect of my life belongs to Him. So however I'm going about things, I can't speed up the process. I can't go and step out of what I want to do on my own understanding and go ahead and be bothered with someone who's not fit for this part of my life. I need as much encouragement as possible
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 5:00
As a woman, I would aim not to speak regarding men because I'm not a man. I can only speak regarding my preferences for the type of man that I prefer. I cannot speak on men itself because I'm not a man. So I will not do that. What I will say is this as a woman, I'm not going to be concerned with what that man is doing
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:43
When it comes down to all things in life, not just romantic relationships, but all things, this life is not even permanent. So how can we attach ourselves to other things? So it's important to learn from a space of acceptance. Accepting people for who they are, not for this convoluted story we want to make of them in our head, accepting them for who they are
This is what the intentions of is now. And I'm not in that category. I'm not in that mindset. I'm really at a place where it's like, you know what, I'm going to wait because there are good men out here. Their intentions probably line up with mine. But can I find them? No, because there's too much corruption going on in the dating scene trying to be with someone
It. Yeah, but all the stuff you were saying or whatever and mixing business with pleasure. Like, I go to the gym, and I, too, see a lot of things in there. Like, there's men in there. These men be fine. They're not even half fine. They are fine. They in there. They working out. They sweaty. They all muscular. And some of them like, oh, good morning. How are you doing?