Text messages and why I’m starting to hate them
These past couple of months that I've been going through these transitions, what is transition? Sorry? This particular transition of me and not being married no more, that's another Swell for another time. But anyway, the thing is, if you look at the photo I added on to this, you'll see why
Like, your voice holds a frequency, and their frequency is a signal that lets you know, saying, like, where this person coming from? Based off the pitch or the tone of their voice, you understand where they're coming from or what they say. And I agree. A lot of things you can get misunderstood through texting. You're talking about some serious I feel like you shouldn't talk with a text about it. I feel like you should talk about it face time or something
They can take their attention from really expressing how they want to type, so they probably want to word it, just giving it a benefit of the doubt, looking at it from another way, that's all. And I appreciate you for listening to me. It's actually my first time using this app and recording so I'm going to be trying to come out of my swell. Topics that people can talk about. Hope you can support. Thank you
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Well, happy holidays and Happy New Year. Thank you for responding to my post, to what I was saying about text messaging. And that is true. Like you can't really know what people are saying, like how do you feel about what you're saying to a text message only when you know the truth is hearing their tone and a frequency in the conversation. And it's funny how you mention that because we live in a day and time when people don't know how to be honest
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:58
Have I ever asked you for anything? And so if I'm asking you for something, that's a big a** deal. And so this particular cousin, we're similar in that manner. And I was like, So I can see that I said, you offered the reads for free, and if she can reimburse you shipping. I said, when you are a woman in business, you got to be impeccable with your word and so without fault and without blame
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:58
You mentioned that this person has been coming off as shady. Again, that's also perception because our feelings are neither right nor wrongly just are. But they're not facts though. These are questions not that you necessarily need to answer back specifically to me or to us, but just to reflect on yourself. When you were texting about these games, did you really want to text about the games or was it that you really wanted some level of connection and communication with this person?
So I was sitting there trying to spark the conversation, spark the conversation about the game or whatever. I know why I try to keep the line of communication open between me and this particular person. But I know for a fact that he's the type of person he played games, he's a game player
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:01
So, yeah, if they're into the game or they're into something, they're going to be paying attention to what they got going on. Saying for us, if we got something going on, kids, school, work, we have learned that I can't respond to it right now. Let me pick up the phone and have a conversation. Call me up to the game. Then you can open up that dialogue of that conversation. Right? But I don't know
Hey, Luchianna. Yeah. That basically summed it up and from another perspective. And I got a respect, definitely respect and give pause for your honesty or whatever, because not everybody is into texting. They're into more of talking in Texas. And then you got people that really don't feel like conversating. So the texting thing is good for them. There's good and bad flaws. There's bad flaws in texting. There's good things about texting, and I just see the bad