@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 2:30

Why do you have to be with someone who’s so broken that they are breaking you too even when you’re trying to fix them

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It's not your responsibility to fix people. Please get straight in your head again and I will repeat it. It's not your duty to fix people just in the name of love, especially the person who's breaking you constantly. You're trying to fix that person and that person is trying to break you. If they're broken, that's not your fault. It's not your fault that they're broken. And it's not your responsibility to fix broken people
@MitsuhaMiyamizu

@Kashishlongiany

And I think this is the reason that that's why people don't get over these kind of relationships. I mean, they try to fix things like they try their level best. They go to they hit their lowest to fix the things. But sometimes it's not worthy and you shouldn't do that. Just pick yourself up and just get out of that toxic relationship and just be yourself
@LuzuDayum
L Kausar
@LuzuDayum · 2:20

@Kashishlongiany

This s*** is just very toxic. So that's totally an example of a toxic relationship where one sided efforts and too much of effort is being given and the other one misuses you in the name of just asking you to be a trauma healer or just wants you to be the FIXO and his or her job is to do nothing and just to seek empathy and sympathy from you and just get pampered and get baby seated. So yeah, I definitely agree with your point
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@Anwesa
Anwesa Saha
@Anwesa · 1:46

@Kashishlongiany

Hi Kashish, I can relate to you so much and even I have learnt it the hard way earlier when I was younger, that is in class eight and nine. I had a very false belief after seeing, you know, these kind of movies and serials which are so misleading that I thought that a partner is there to fix the other partner. So an imperfect partner, rather a broken partner can be fixed by the true love and all the devotion and all these things
@AdaaGupta
Adaa Gupta
@AdaaGupta · 0:45
Hi Gasses and I really appreciate the content that you share because it's an Eyeopener to so many because some people just ask the way I like it to understand that the other person is using you to fix them and it's not your responsibility to fix them anyway and it's really a harsh reality. But everyone don't get that straight into their head that you need not be the nicest person in the world and you should think about it yourself and not everyone around you. That's it. Thank you
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