@kanika1911
Kanika Bhatia
@kanika1911 · 1:23

Choose your partner wisely

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You. Somebody asked me after my breakup that, did you not notice this thing before? Or do you not realize that this is how the personality trait of this person is? And to my shock, my answer was yes, I did notice all this, but yes, I ignored. This is what we all do in the starting of the relationship. We tend to ignore the red flags

#relationship #breakup #chosewisely #followyourgut #neverignoreredflag #narscissist

@SpecialMission
Rohan RR
@SpecialMission · 1:43
So in order to break free from something that you don't really want, you have to look at yourself first. Heal. What's forcing you to follow the same patterns over the years and falling in the same traps? Just understand it might be deep sometimes. Sometimes it might not be deep. You just have to know that know that precisely. So
@kanika1911
Kanika Bhatia
@kanika1911 · 1:39

@SpecialMission

So I think to break this kind of pattern, first and foremost thing one should do is start falling in love with yourself. And once we love ourselves, then there is nobody who can treat us in any non respectful manner or in any way which is not acceptable. And when we love ourselves, we will not ignore the red flag from the start because we would have set a boundary around us that okay, this something which is acceptable and this is something which is not
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Scribe7
Mike W
@Scribe7 · 4:26
And until, well, put it like this, to get better in relationships, you had to be in family relationships to get better by yourself, you had to be by yourself. And I don't know if it was God, I don't know what it was, but it was a period of time when I didn't think about dating. I didn't try, and nobody came
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